

This reads as if someone doesn’t understand cloud compute, iac, and so on, and just got frustrated trying to learn and explore the paradigm.
That’s fine, but blaming “serverless” or aws lambda is like blaming a multicore cpu for having to learn threads and subprocceses.

It sounds like the problem you describe is not with the concept of using serverless/faas cloud compute and adjacent services, but with the design and implementation done by some engineers you work with. That may be due to time constraints, lack of familiarity, engineering skill, or some other reason.
I’ve seen terrible containers, terrible vms, terrible bare metal servers. I’ve written good and bad myself. And yes, I’ve seen (and done) great implementation of serverless. It’s all just tools to be used.